The konkani speaking people are tradition preservers. In most of the Hindu marriages the use of the 'veil' by the brides is predominant. The Konkani bride wears a white veil called "khola" in konkani, which forms a distinct symbol in the Saraswath bridal attire. Different in nature as it is worn in a beautiful way over the choli, unlike the other veils which are worn over the head.The Sarawath bride wear a nine yards saree usually in dark shades of red, pink or blue, along with traditional jewellry consisting of necklaces, earings, nose-ring, waistband, armlets and toe rings. Nine green bangles adorn her hands along with gold kangans. The uniqueness in every aspect of Konkani Culture ranging from costumes, cuisine, customs and traditions is something which every konkani Saraswat can proudly boast about.
The significance of this aamchi " khola" is that it is present only in a Saraswat style of wedding. The khola symbolises modesty and purity. The two and half metre's of flowing white cloth depicts virginity. Hence it is always white,winter silk off-white or ivory which has a light yellow tinge, depending upon the texture of the material chosen by the designer. Whatever the name,
the khola is always soft white, between pure white and ivory in colour. The cloth is folded twice in equal width to form a 2 and 1/2 metres long strip.
In recent times this khola is made very decorative by sewing a thin border of contrast silk thread, or zari or sequins border or small beads border which look very dainty. Whichever type of border that is chosen all look exquisite when they are delicately sewn on the white cloth. Big motifs either floral, swastik and the famous paisley/mango or kairi design made on the khola which makes it more decorative and elegant. Preparing the 'bridal-trousseau is every Indian Bride's dream...a one time affair she chooses the right mix of sarees to look her best.
After all rituals like 'kanya daana, the groom tieing the kashi-tali and saptapadi are over, there is a beautiful ritual of groom's mother unwrapping the bride's khola and placing the anchal or sharagu for the bride. She is ceremoniously ushered into her new home and with the help of her mother-in-law performs her first Gowri or Vayana pooja.After pooja and seeking Mother Gowri's grace for sound health and good progeny, the bride seeks blessings by gifting 'vayana to her mother first,then her mother-in-law and all elders present at the wedding.
I had the opportunity to make 'khola' for my sister Sheela for her wedding in early 70's. Again this year I had the pleasure of making one,for my niece, Champa who weds Raghavendra on May 6th in Belman. Sharing the pictures of the khola with you all, we wish the new couple 'Good Health and Happiness in their Married Life.'
